Swapping nudes are amazing but it could be daunting to some people especially girls. Because girls don’t like to be a piece of meat for a boy, rather you have to get them turned on and feel safe if you really wanna crack the deal.
And if you think sending an unsolicited pick of your TOOL can turn her on, then you are totally wrong as this could lead her to either ghosting you or in the worst case scenario, facing some legal action.
Requesting for nude is not that easy and you have to put in a lot of effort to taste the success. Let me share with you 5 best ways to ask for nudes that would definitely work.
How To Ask For Nudes Without
#1. Never say ‘Send Nudes’
No need to beg for her nudes, nothing seems more creepier than asking a girl about her nude pics. She’ll become very uncomfortable and may start avoiding you.
Remember, you must have a developed relationship between you and your partner before you can demand something nasty.
Expecting naked selfies in a new relationship could be a big turnoff.
The best way is to enjoy the relationship growing, understanding each other and waiting for the right time and mood that could lead to exchanging nudes.
#2. Make Her Feel Comfortable and Safe
Remember, women are much worried about getting their intimate photos leaked. A creepy ex can ruin her life by sharing her nudes to other friends or uploading on a porn site.
Such pissed off guys don’t respect those girls who trust them like anything.
So it’s highly important to make her feel comfortable and secure before you demand nudes, if you don’t want her to ghost.
Tell her that you are a man of principles and how much you respect a girl’s dignity. Let her observe how you manage your private affairs, and when she is comfortable, she’ll drop subtle hints herself or you could demand indirectly that we’ll discuss in upcoming points.
#3. Give Compliments
Sending nudes can be daunting for a girl, but when you make her feel that she’s damn hot, by giving her compliments about her being so sexy, then she could shower on you her uncovered beauty.
Compliment her a lot and let her feel she’s wanted. Praise about her sexy looks, about her curves and assets.
When she uploads a pic on insta, tell her that you are dying to meet her. Such doses of compliments and your deep interest in her would make her feel comfortable to send you nudes.
#4. Understand Her Clues
Always be aware of what your partner is saying. Girls never say anything explicitly. Rather you should decode her hints that she is ready now.
If your girl tells you that she is about to change for her outing or she’s gonna get in the shower or she has bought some new undergarments, that could be her subtle hints that she wants to start a dirty talk with you that could lead to exchanging nudes.
#5. Get Them in Mood with Sexting
Go slow, and start with a compliment. You can initiate with a message like “I’ve been thinking about doing naughty things to you”.
That’s how you set up the vibe. Gradually heat up the convo by getting more dirty in your chat and change her mood. Such steamy convo can make her feel sexy and safe enough to let you crack the deal.
This is the time when you ask her how beautiful she is and you are missing her touch and wanna feel her.
If you have done everything and you get a NO, then respect her answer and don’t take her ‘no’ to your ego.
After all, its her choice to show you her uncovered or not. Don’t be a creepy guy who is just after her body, that could let her ghost you.
Respect each other’s dignity and it’s better to enjoy the relationship in different ways rather than just indulging in exchanging the naked pictures.