Most of the people consider sex and making love as same things but they are wrong. Having sex with your partner gives you physical satisfaction while making love is eternal.
As a woman, you may want to know if he’s really into you or just interested in fucking you. I am going to share 11 subtle signs he is making love to you or just using you for nookie.
11 Signs He is Making Love to You or Not
#1. Concerned About Your Satisfaction
If your lovemaking session ends as soon as he finishes, then he is with you just for the sex, and he is not making love to you. If he is concerned if you are finished or not, that shows his care, and a strong sign that he loves you so much.
Even if he finishes before you do, and he is still concerned about your orgasm, then he truly cares for you and deeply in love with you. He can show concern by apologizing, giving some kisses or hugging you tight.
You can go in flashback and recall his actions during previous meet, If he separated himself once he was done without caring if you had enjoyed or not, then he is not love-making.
#2. Goes Slow
Remember the popular saying – Slow and steady wins the race !
If your man is caring for you, he would want to go slow and take his time while having sex. However, if a man is just fucking you, he would want pound on you and finish his part.
Going slow also allows you both to enjoy sex. If he is slow that means he has passion for you, so he wants to let you enjoy as well rather than looking for his immediate gratification.
#3. Eye Contact
Eyes tell everything about a person’s feelings. You can observe your guy’s eyes while making love. If he makes eye contact during sex, that means he wants to know your reactions at that time.
But if he avoids looking into your eyes, then high possibility is just using you for rumpy pumpy. But if he has intense feelings for you, he’ll look deep into your eyes while being intimate to check how you are feeling whether you are bored, enjoying or feeling any pain.
If he is just for the sex, he would rather focus on your assets like complementing your boobs than you.
#4. Cares About Your Wishes
If your partner grants your wishes that shows his deep connection with you. A man who is just concerned about fucking you, does not bother for your wishes.
When your partner makes love to you, he wants to know your likes and try to do accordingly. He can even ask you about your preferences when you are not in love making.
#5. He Always Has His Hands On You
If your partner enjoys making love to you, he tries to touch you all the time. He likes your body’s touch and enjoys caressing you.
If you always has his hands on you, that means, he loves to make love to you.That’s why, your guy always in search of a chance for a quick sexual action to seduce you.
#6. Gets Hard In No Time When You Are Close
If your partner gets seduced when you kiss or hug him, that indicates you are always on his mind. Your touch or smell gets him horny every time you get closer.
If you have noticed the same many times, then your guy is definitely into making love with you.
If your guy sleeps beside you after sex then certainly he is not using you, rather enjoy your company. He wants you the whole not just with you to fuck you.
#7. Say Your Name
Another big big indication of your guy is making love to you if he says your name during intercourse. His care for you let him whisper your name to feel your complete presence, not just physical one.
You can also do him favor by calling his name.
#8. Kisses You All Over
Your partner will kiss you all over not just smooches, if he is deeply in love with you. He can kiss your cheeks, forehead, neck, cleavage, stomach and every single part of your body.
He thinks you are precious and kisses you all over to feel you on his lips.
If your boo closes his eyes while kissing you, he wants to feel your warmth that indicates he is not just for sex.
#9. Creates a Romantic Atmosphere
If your guy makes you feel comfortable on the bed and creates a romantic atmosphere instead of just pounding on you and pulls back when done. This shows his deep love and care.
His efforts depict that he is a true lover and his genuine love for you.
#10. He Can Sleep Next to You Without Having Sex
If your partner is comfortable in spending the night with you without disturbing you to have sex, but makes love when you are also ready. That means he likes to have sex but he is with you to make love, not just to fuck you.
#11. He’s Open to Try New Things with You
But there’s a difference between that and him being open to experimentation you suggest between the two of you.
Do your partner discuss with you about new positions, oils, or roleplaying?
If yes, then this shows his true care for you because he’s excited for something that excites you too.
But if your guy suggests to do sex in a weird way or pushes you to do something that you are not comfortable with that is a clear indication that he’s using you.
These are some of the signs which assure you that your partner actually enjoys making love to you.
These are sum subtle indications that tells you whether your partner is making love to you or just using you for sex.
But in the end, you should use your own judgement and intuition to determine if your partner loves you or not.
Always analyse that your partner must be reflecting multiple signs from the above discussed 11, to determine your partner’s intentions – To make love to you or just fuck you.