Women are more expressive than men in general but she won’t directly come to you and ask you to ride her in the bed.
Infact, she will show you multiple subtle hints and expect you to pick the trail. Some important subtle signs a woman is attracted to you sexaull are as below –
- She starts fondling with her hair
- Stares a glance at you when you’re not looking at her
- Exposing and touching her neck
- Adjusting of her breasts frequently
- Lean against you or touching you more often
- Mirroring your body language
- Licking or biting her lips
Let’s recognize these subtle signs of a woman being sexually attracted to you in detail. I have divided it into 2 parts – In person and At a distance.
Because in today’s work texting and video calls are a part of life and you must know how a girl may react when she is sexually interested in you while being at a distance.
Signs A Woman Is Attracted To You Sexually (In-Person)
#1. Frequent Eye to Eye Contact
A woman maintains subtle eye contact to you only if she is genuinely interested in you. You have to be mindful and observe if she is maintaining eye contact frequently with you.
You would notice that she catches your gaze and turns away when you find her looking in your eyes.
This is among the very first signs that a woman is attracted to you sexually.
#2. Gaze on Your Lips
If you find a girl looking at your lips while talking to you, and you are thinking that she is noticing your bad lips, then you are wrong. Because this is a solid sign that she is sexually attracted towards you and wants to kiss your lips.
According to science, our eyes gravitate towards the most interesting thing whether it is eyes, a beautiful figure or the lips.
However, you don’t take the final invitation and try to observe some more subtle signs before reciprocating to her.
#3. She Exposes Her Neck and Wrists
When she’s sexually interested in you she will turn her wrist to face you. Not only wrist but she will also expose her neck by bending her face.
Neck and wrists are definite sexual stimulation zones because back in the days these were most vulnerable parts of our body (especially neck) and we defend them naturally.
So when a girl exposes her neck or wrists depicts her trust in you and if she keeps touching her neck or wrists shows her sexual arousal or wants to be touched by you.
#4. Tries to Sit Next to You
When a girl is fond of you, she will start minimizing the distance between both of you. The very simple step is sitting next to you to show that she is comfortable with you.
But don’t take it in a wrong way and take it as her call, you can simply check by nudging her with your elbow and wait for her response.
If she comes closer or initiates some physical touch, then it shows she is comfortable with you and ready to go to the next step.
But if you are afraid of testing her, then wait for some other hints that she will definitely show you if she is interested in you.
#5. Touches You Subconsciously
If a girl wants to let you know her feelings, she will not just sit next to you, she will cross the invisible barrier and try to touch while talking.
It is not necessary that she will be doing it deliberately, it may happen naturally as her desire to come in physical contact with you is coming out in indirect ways.
The touch could be on hand, or leg or it may be a friendly push during conversation.
Try to observe the repeated pattern, and give a response with the flow. Nothing more, nothing less.
if she is sexually attracted to you, she will not object you at all. But make sure you don’t overdo touching. You just respond to her touch in a similar fashion.
#6. Initiates Conversation with You
She will definitely try to find chances to start a conversation with you if she is interested in you. Whether it’s giving you a compliment or she can come with a problem. Whether you provide her a solution or not, that is not her priority.
She just utilizes that reason to talk to you. If you are experiencing a similar thing, there’s a strong possibility that she wants to spend time with you.
#7. Wears a Sexy Fragrance
If you feel that your girl is putting a seductive fragrance, even on a coffee date in local cafe, that is an effort to capture your attention.
Everybody likes pleasant fragrances and girls are quite choosy for this. If she wants to grab your attention, she will be wearing a sexy scent that will turn you on when you meet her.
But its not always be a subtle sign, some girls are very fond of different kind of fragrances, so you cannot take a single sign as the final one.
#8. Compliments You Often
If a woman is complimenting you regularly, then the possibility is high that she is attracted towards you.
Generally, women are not so kind to give compliments to everyone. They compliment those people who they really admire.
Notice her way of compliment. If she is complimenting about your body or physical appearance, then there are high chances that she is sexually interested in you despite she is already married or a single.
#9. Initiate Personal Queries
After a formal introduction to another person comes the “Know other person” phase. This phase only comes when someone wants to strengthen the relationship.
If she is asking you some personal and emotional questions, then she is quite interested in knowing you more closely and making the relationship stronger.
#10. Smiles at You Often
Try to notice that if she smiles everytime you cross each other or if she expresses a mischievous smile when no one is there to notice except you, then this is an invitation of friendship by her.
#11. Fondles with Her Hair
An interested girl will definitely start fondling with her locks. If you find her staring at you and tossing her hair is a strong indication of sexual attraction for you.
#12. Mirror Behavior
According to human psychology, we mimic those whom we like a lot. That’s why you might have seen kids mimicking her father or mother.
Similarly, in girl’s context, if she is attracted towards you, she will unknowingly copy your body language.
If you are crossing the arms, she will do the same. If you notice that she is following you in the flow, then this is a sign of trust and surrender.
#13. A Seductive Gaze
A girl stares at you in 2 cases – one if she is attracted towards you or if she wants your attention. But if you catch her looking at you with some lust in her eyes.
Or if she is looking at you and seems like saying you something silently, then this is an open indication to show her sexual attraction towards you.
#14. Expressing Her Sexual Desires
If she is very open to talk about sexual fantasies with you, then this is strong indication of her interest in you.
If she doesn’t shy away and tries to engage you on the topic of sex, then she is inviting you to do the same.
#15. Change in her Dress up
Have you noticed a change in her dress up style? If she has started caring about her looks and tries to add a special feel in his dress up, then she is trying to woo you with her beauty.
You might have noticed her wearing shorter skirts, showing you her cleavage comfortably, or flaunting her assets, then you should be ready to take the final call and enjoy togetherness.
#16. Invites You to Her Place
If she is inviting you to her place for a coffee or drink, don’t get over excited, just handle everything comfortably and avoid being overpushing.
Let her feel comfortable and give her sign that you are ready to go a step further.
#17. Trying to Hang Out with You
Some girls might be introvert and won’t approach you openly. But she would like to hang out with you to spend time with you.
She would create some valid reasons to spend time with you by inviting you on lunch dates or an evening coffee to express her interest in you.
#18. Lip Biting
Women bites their lips to excite men because biting her lip while staring at you is among the strongest signs of sexual arousal.
If she is catching your gaze and bites her lips, then she is trying to convey you her approval of getting intimate.
Signs She is Attracted to You Sexually (While At Distance)
#19. Text You Frequently with Different Reasons
If your friend is pinging you every now and then, with a new stupid reason everytime, then there’s high chance that she is interested in your company.
She can ask you for your opinion on a particular topic or she can even send you a kiss emoji and then starts a conversation with an apology by sending by mistake. She is conveying her approval indirectly.
But if it is a sudden message out of the blues, then it could be typo error, so always take a decision after observing a repeated pattern.
#20. Invite You to Her Room Virtually
She can start a conversation while talking about her new dress and then she can start talking about her wardrobe.
She can even ask you to suggest what she would wear on her upcoming date. She can even do a video call to show you her new dress and you might check if she is exposing her body during the call, then she is sending you sign of sexual attraction towards you.
#21. Sends You a Sexy Video or Picture
If she is bold and want to take the initiative, she can sends you a sexy photo or a video clip to express her approval being getting closer.
You shouldn’t get excited and send back her 10 porn clips that you have saved in your phone. Rather start a conversation with a mischievous reply of that video or image to let her open further and make her comfortable to express her feelings better.
Remember, these 21 tricks might not work with all the girls. So you should be mindful and observe if the girl is showing multiple signs that are making a pattern of her interest in you, only then you can take a charge to move one step closer.
Women have many ways to express their sexual intentions, it is your duty to decode them correctly and respond to her at the right time.